A quick Google search on "How to give a female an orgasm" will return 622,000 results. The problem is very few of these results will tell you the truth about giving a female an orgasm.
Sure, they'll talk about how to stimulate your lover with all the latest tips and techniques that you might read about in Cosmo magazine.
But they're all missing one little, niggling thing...
Her mind.
What the "sex gurus" all fail to mention is that if you don't know how to turn on a woman's mind, she's never going to orgasm.
Think about it... let's imagine we have the guy who has the best sexual technique in the world. He even looks just like Brad Pitt and thanks to his reputation women simply throw themselves at him on a nightly basis.
But tonight he's developed a bit of a potty mouth... and he's not just talking dirty here... he's actually being completely offensive and derogatory towards his partner.
Now assuming this woman is a regular human being who doesn't find being verbally abused a turn on... do you think she's going to orgasm?
Exactly! Suddenly all the smooth moves and fancy techniques fly right out the window.
Now this is a rather extreme case, but if you're anything like me you'll know that upsetting a woman can be a quite easy task. After all, it wasn't "what" you said... it was the "way" you said it...
I don't mean to talk down to women here... I love them! But every guy knows they're as emotionally complicated as a Rubik's Cube. I think that's what makes them so much fun... we very rarely manage to "solve" them.
But now it's time to try. If you really want to give your lover the orgasm of her dreams, night after night... you need to learn how to turn her on emotionally and psychologically.
You have to learn to make love to her mind.
This may sound complicated... and when you're just starting out it might seem overwhelming. But pretty soon you'll be able to turn on a woman emotionally without even thinking about it. It'll simply become part of your personality.
So, my advice to you, if you want to really learn how to give a female an orgasm she'll never forget... Learn how to pleasure her mind.
I guarantee you won't regret it.
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