Are the Clitoris and G Spot the Same Thing? New Research Into the Way Women Orgasm

If you have read any good literature about having great sex with a girl, then you will have heard the discussion about the two major zones that make women orgasm. The most well known area is the clitoris. It is found externally and is usually the easiest way to have an orgasm with a woman, as any woman who masturbates will most likely have given herself one of these orgasms. The other kind is an orgasm from the G-spot which is internal. To stimulate this area involves penetration and a rhythmic motion on the area slightly above the pubic bone. The easiest way to stimulate this area is using the fingers in a 'come here' motion.

Pretty much everyone knows these two areas, right? Over recent years these two spots have come to represent everything about sex and sexual mastery. While this is not the whole truth (There are in fact numerous other erogenous areas inside the vagina that lead to orgasm) it is certainly an important idea.

However new research promises to rewrite everything we thought we knew about female erogenous zones.

Dr O'Connell and the New Model

If you ask most women, they will tell you that the two kinds of orgasm have a different feeling. This is really important as this lead generations of researchers to believe that they must be separate erogenous zones. The clitoris was assumed to be a small isolated area and the G-spot either a freak of the vagina's innervation or, even more bizarrely, something that didn't really exist!

The Australian Scientist Dr. O'Connell is now challenging this belief. Using sophisticated MRI technology, she is starting to unravel the mysteries of female anatomy and with it the structure of the clitoris. She was amazed to discover that the clitoris was longer than almost everyone had thought: possibly even as long as the penis!

"The vaginal wall is, in fact, the clitoris," She was quoted as saying showing a picture that traced the clitoris all the way from the visible part to the top of the labia, then back all the way to the uterus which it encircles. This was massive news for people interested in sex as it meant that every kind of orgasm from urethral to G-spot involved stimulating the clitoris.

While the proof of this theory is groundbreaking, the theory itself has been known for a long time. William Masters and Virginia Johnson (The couple who made their name with the famous sex book the Human Sexual Response) proposed the theory, but it was received poorly (Especially as the debate over whether the G-spot existed or not was still raging).

Should These Two Erogenous Zones Be Treated Differently?

Therefore is it time to stop referring to the G-spot and other similar spots such as the AFE and just call them 'front of the clitoris' and 'back of the clitoris' instead? The honest answer is that while they may well be different parts of the same erogenous zone, they are stimulated differently and give sensations that are very different. Therefore we should continue to refer to them as separate zones and use the scientific definition for discovering more about the wonders of female sexual anatomy.

Does Penis Size Really Matter When it Comes to Giving a Woman an Orgasm?

Does penis size matter? A question that comes up all the time, all over the place. I would honestly have to say it does matter somewhat, but not as much most people think.

Most women require their clitoris to be stimulated in order for them to achieve orgasm. So you can have an 9 and a 1/2 inch penis, but unless you're stimulating that love button, your girl might not get off. Now that is not all cases. Some women can orgasm from intercourse alone, and some women apparently have strong orgasms when you hit their cervix, which is deep down inside the vagina.

However, even these women can orgasm from clitoral stimulation, so even if you have a small penis, you can still make a woman orgasm.

I believe in most cases, having a larger penis is just something to feel good about. You feel manlier than the guy with the smaller penis next to you, or you feel good because you're supposedly larger than your girl's last boyfriend.

I think its some deep-rooted stuff. You automatically feel envious of a man with a larger penis. Shoot, we all do. This is such a deep-rooted emotion that they've even given this psychological effect a name: "penis envy".

That is the only reason penis size really matters. We want to impress our girlfriends or wives, we want to be larger than any of their exes, and we want to be larger than most dudes in the same room as us.

But a large penis is not really necessary, and we can live a happy life, complete with a satisfactory sex-life, without having to be larger than the majority of men we come across.

However, if you would, just for your own confidence sake, like to at least have a say in the matter, there are natural penis enlargement exercises that work to make your penis bigger. You should approach them with a patient and respectful attitude, because although you can gain upwards of an inch (I've gone from about 6 inches to 7.5 inches, much thicker, and my flaccid penis is larger), you can injure yourself if don't do them correctly.

How to Give a Female an Orgasm - What the "Sex Gurus" Aren't Telling You

A quick Google search on "How to give a female an orgasm" will return 622,000 results. The problem is very few of these results will tell you the truth about giving a female an orgasm.

Sure, they'll talk about how to stimulate your lover with all the latest tips and techniques that you might read about in Cosmo magazine.

But they're all missing one little, niggling thing...

Her mind.

What the "sex gurus" all fail to mention is that if you don't know how to turn on a woman's mind, she's never going to orgasm.

Think about it... let's imagine we have the guy who has the best sexual technique in the world. He even looks just like Brad Pitt and thanks to his reputation women simply throw themselves at him on a nightly basis.

But tonight he's developed a bit of a potty mouth... and he's not just talking dirty here... he's actually being completely offensive and derogatory towards his partner.

Now assuming this woman is a regular human being who doesn't find being verbally abused a turn on... do you think she's going to orgasm?

Exactly! Suddenly all the smooth moves and fancy techniques fly right out the window.

Now this is a rather extreme case, but if you're anything like me you'll know that upsetting a woman can be a quite easy task. After all, it wasn't "what" you said... it was the "way" you said it...

I don't mean to talk down to women here... I love them! But every guy knows they're as emotionally complicated as a Rubik's Cube. I think that's what makes them so much fun... we very rarely manage to "solve" them.

But now it's time to try. If you really want to give your lover the orgasm of her dreams, night after night... you need to learn how to turn her on emotionally and psychologically.

You have to learn to make love to her mind.

This may sound complicated... and when you're just starting out it might seem overwhelming. But pretty soon you'll be able to turn on a woman emotionally without even thinking about it. It'll simply become part of your personality.

So, my advice to you, if you want to really learn how to give a female an orgasm she'll never forget... Learn how to pleasure her mind.

I guarantee you won't regret it.

Making a Woman Orgasm - 3 Secrets Ripped From Every Sex Book

Making a woman orgasm is not as complicated as what most men think it is. In fact, it is not so much of which "super" sex technique you should use to get the desirable result. The female orgasm is not a woman's end result of a love-making session but rather, a journey. Here are three secrets that every love-making book strongly advise you to do, if you want your woman to achieve an orgasm quickly.

Secret One: Lavish Her With Kisses

Your first physical connection with her should start from a kiss. Kissing is a form of affection that women enjoys, which also makes them feel appreciated. It is also a good way to turn her on.

Kiss her at the area where her neck meets her ears. Women find this place a huge turn on. Also, plant kisses on her earlobes, her lips and down to her breasts, especially the nipples.

Alternate with light sucking and nibbling, as you tickle her lightly with your tongue.

Kissing is a great way to arouse your woman and get her into the mood for sex. Once she is in a relaxed and sexually receptive state of mind, it will be much easier for her to reach orgasm quickly.

Secret 2: Taking it slowly

Usually at this point, many men are more than ready to pull out their "thing" out and plunge it into their partner. Do not make the same mistake as what 95% of the guys do. Instead, try to slow things down a notch, women prefer to savor the whole experience.

If you want your woman to have an unforgettable orgasm quickly, you should hold the actual intercourse for a while. Prolonging foreplay in the form of kissing, cuddling and fondling her breasts.

Whisper in her ear and tell her what you want to do to her. She will start to fantasize about it and you can bet that she can't wait for it to happen.

Secret 3: Give Her Oral Sex

There is perhaps no better way to escalate a woman's orgasm more quickly, than to give her a cunnilingus. Scientists believe that a woman's clitoris is the only known organ, structured only for sexual pleasure.

This highly sensitive spot comprises of more than eight thousand and nerve endings. If you are able to work up her clitoris with your tongue, she will definitely beg you not to stop!

Giving your woman oral sex may be a sure way of getting her to reach orgasm after foreplay, but most men fail in this area most of the time because they end up poking her clitoris with the tip of their tongues.

Check back my previous articles, if you will, to have a better idea of how you can give your woman better oral sex.