Oral sex is the ultimate expression of affection between a man and a woman. You can't get more intimate than having your face buried in someone's genitals. Performing oral sex on a guy is pretty straightforward. Women are much more complicated creatures. The fact that there are so many guides and articles written about cunnilingus illustrates how much confusion there is on the subject.
Since only a small percentage of women achieve orgasm during intercourse it pays to have a backup plan. Even better, let cunnilingus be your Plan A. With women, achieving orgasm through oral sex is largely mental. Not much can happen unless the brain is engaged. And all the technique in the world won't lead to a favorable outcome if she is not properly warmed up and at ease.
Five Do's and One Don't For the Orally Challenged
• DO make it clear that you love the way she feels, tastes and smells.
• DO stress to her that there is no rush - all she has to do is relax and enjoy.
• DO start slowly - let her body language guide how fast or slow
• DO keep doing what you're doing if you hit a good spot.
• DON'T stop to ask how it's going. Breaking the rhythm is a guaranteed mood killer.
• DO use your fingers sparingly - fingers in surprising places can be both distracting and annoying.
Some men view oral sex as a one way street. If you expect and enjoy receiving you should make an effort to gain some oral skills. Ideally, couples should be able discuss what feels good in a neutral setting away from the bedroom. Imagine how great your love life will be once you have perfected the art of orally pleasing the woman in your life.
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